News and Updates

Below are the latest news and updates from Cornerstone Hospice. Be sure to check out our events section for a calendar of our upcoming events and volunteer opportunities.

Grieving Children Find Their Voice at Camp Bridges

Every spring, the good folks of Cornerstone Hospice turn their focus to children in Lake and Sumter Counties who have lost a loved one and may be having issues dealing with their grief.

Camp Bridges is a no cost, two-day, overnight camp for children age 6 to 11 years that provides structured activities that encourage group sharing, bonding and team building. 

Children participate in arts and crafts sessions that help them share their feelings. For instance, they make collages about themselves and their loss. They also decorate “bricks” honoring their loved ones and place it on the campground “bridge” (where Camp Bridges gets its name).

From a nature walk in the morning to stories around a campfire at night with lots of fun in between—swimming pool with slides, movie night complete with popcorn—Camp Bridges provides a much needed escape for youngsters.

“We often forget how beneficial it can be to get out in the great outdoors and leave the rest of the world behind,” says head camp and grief counselor Mike Barnett. “Camp Bridges reassures kids who may have felt alone and isolated with their grief that others feel exactly the same way they do. They can talk to their teachers, their parents or even me, but it’s not the same as sharing with peers their own age. The experience is powerful for them. And it’s healing.”


On May 2 and 3, Camp Bridges will celebrate its 20th anniversary of helping young ones deal with the pain of loss. The celebration will take place at the Warren W. Willis United Methodist Youth Camp, 4990 Picciola Road, Fruitland Park, FL 34731. For more information about Camp Bridges please contact counselor Mike Barnett at: 352.742.6808.

Posted on Sun, 29 Mar 2015

100,000 Story

L to R:  Women for Hospice Chairman of the Board Genene Rawls, Cornerstone Hospice Foundation Executive Director Nick Buchholz, Cornerstone Hospice CEO Chuck Lee, Women for Hospice board members Salley Thibodeau, Sue Ellen Ibach, and Mary Valbueno.


’Tis the season for giving indeed and the Women for Hospice volunteer group started this one off with a generous gift of $100,000 earmarked for Cornerstone Hospice. That makes four years in a row the charity-minded group presented Cornerstone with a $100,000 check at their Christmas luncheon. This year’s affair, held on December 4th, culminates a volunteer effort from the 250+ local residents that make up Women for Hospice. Most monies from the gift came from donations raised at the volunteer group The Hope Chest, an upscale resale shop in downtown Mount Dora. Other fundraising efforts included proceeds from the group’s monthly luncheons, a Variety Show and Game Month.  All of the proceeds go towards helping patients in Lake County.


“It is an exciting time for Cornerstone Hospice as we continue to grow and innovate. We work every day on patient and family challenges. With supporters like Women for Hospice, we see these challenges as nothing more than opportunities to rise to a higher level of care than some thought possible,” said Nick Buchholz, Cornerstone Hospice Foundation Executive Director.

Posted on Wed, 14 Jan 2015

She’s 104 and Ready to Party.

November was National Hospice Month and Margaret Scarfia staged a celebration of her own. With help from the folks at the Serenades Assisted Living Facility in The Villages, Florida, Margaret turned 104 surrounded by family and friends. Her daughter, Rosemary Scarfia, says about 22 people attend her Nov. 28 party, many traveling from out of town.

“It was a real celebration with balloons, food provided by Serenades, and drinks,” Rosemary said. “We definitely had wine. My mother likes her wine. And a cheesecake with whipped cream and strawberries.”

Asked about any secrets her mother may have about living to be 104, Rosemary says, “she lives one day at a time and just enjoys life. She always has a wide circle of friends and is very happy, very social. She lived independently in St. Petersburg (Florida) until she was 100-and-a-half and drove until she was 97!”

Margaret entered into the care of the team from Cornerstone Hospice in April 2013.

“We wanted to make her more comfortable and the Cornerstone team that’s taking care of her has been outstanding,” Rosemary said. “They’ve answered all of my questions, been very communicative, very well informed. They’ve been very supportive of my mother and our whole family. Cornerstone Hospice and Palliative Care truly is a wonderful organization and we should all be thrilled that an organization like this exists.”

Posted on Wed, 3 Dec 2014

Cornerstone Salutes One Of The Great Generation

Garry DeBoer was always “squared away,” a trait no doubt he learned in his time with the U.S. Army in World War II. So, it was not a surprise that, after he was diagnosed with cancer, he began planning for the time he might need hospice care several years before the fact. Always independent, Garry lived alone up to the time his bout with the illness finally confined him to a motorized wheelchair. But eventually, when his physician told him it was time, that he needed to consider hospice support, Garry was ready. He was one step ahead of everyone.


A Purple Heart recipient, Garry was extremely proud of his time in service of our country and found an extended, welcoming family with other American veterans at AMVETS Post 1992 in Mount Dora. One of his great delights was playing bugle in their Honor Guard. The Cornerstone SALUTES team was honored to conduct a pinning ceremony for Garry with all of his AMVETS family in attendance at their annual Chili Cook-off in October. Many in the Lodge were surprised to learn just how many WWII vets they had in their membership!


Garry DeBoer passed away Saturday, August 30, 2014 at the age of 91 years. Garry is

remembered and will be dearly missed by his daughters, Deborah McKay of Leesburg and Denise (Christopher) Patterson of Passaic, NJ; brothers, Everett (Elizabeth) DeBoer of Lady Lake, FL and Edward (Hao) DeBoer of Leesburg; 3 grandchildren, Wendy Merendino of Lawrenceville, NJ, Christopher McKay of Peachtree City, GA and Matthew Patterson of Clifton, NJ and 6 great-grandchildren.

Posted on Tue, 16 Sep 2014

Cornerstone Salutes Lt. J.G. Robert Longson Naval Aviator and WWII Veteran

Robert “Bob” Longson was in high school in Newark, N.J. when the Japanese bombed Pearl Harbor. He waited almost exactly a year, until he graduated in December of 1942, to enlist in the U.S. Navy. His timing could not have been better. The Navy needed pilots and had created the Aviation Cadet Training Program to help fill their ranks. Bob was an excellent student, in prime physical condition and the Training Program was glad to have him. Over the next couple of years, Bob’s training took him all over the United States. He took courses at various colleges, attended aircraft manufacturers classrooms and the Navy’s own flight training program. He earned his wings on January 16, 1945 and received his commission as a US Naval Aviation Officer with the rank of Ensign. He immediately hitched a ride on the battleship USS Pennsylvania, bound for the spot where the war began for the U.S.—the Naval Air Station at Pearl Harbor. Once there, he began logging flight time in an observation aircraft, the Vought Kingfisher. Launched by catapult from the fantails of battleships and cruisers, the Kingfisher performed scouting missions, spotted targets and aided in sea rescues. When its mission was over, the pontoon-equipped plane would land in the water, to be hoisted back aboard its ship like a giant fish caught in a huge net. Bob’s duty station was the light cruiser, USS Vicksburg. He was released from active duty aboard the Vicksburg on December 7, 1945—four years to the day after Japan’s treacherous sneak attack.



Posted on Tue, 29 Jul 2014